Letters from Nepal XXV


Monday, July 28, 2014


We went to Dubar Square close to 6 pm last night.  It is a world heritage monument site. It is a large complex of temples that are Hindu as well as Buddhist. The majority of them are decaying but you can see the pagoda style exterior as well as the fine details carved into the upper levels of wood.

Many festivals are held in Dubar Square. Within the Hindu religion there seems to be at least 2-3 festivals held each month. Tonight men dressed in orange tops and shorts with red tikis were driving around in the back of pickups with music blaring and shouting and chanting. They stopped at some of the small Hindu temples on the street to light candles. This area was the original area of the palaces during the 1700s. We arrived at Dubar Square later than we wished. Once we entered the square we were quickly eyed up by hawkers, self-appointed tourist guides and, we are sure, roving gangs of pickpockets.

We did not stay long as we were getting uncomfortable with the attention we were getting and it was dusk. We walked back through the meandering roads to try to find the Thamel district. Eventually we hailed a cab as the streets and vendors all look the same and we could not find any landmarks that we recognized.

Today we went to another temple complex in the city of Bhaktapuar. It is known as one of the oldest cultural cities for the Newlai culture. The buildings are from the 8th century. Over the centuries, the locals built walls surrounding the city centre, Dubar Square.  Many of the building are in great shape. Peacocks and elephants can be seen quite sharply carved into the wood. Some of the larger temples have been carved from one tree which must have been huge during their life. There were not as many tourists here as it is about 45 minutes from central Kathmandu. We were pleasantly surprised. Tourist guides, although very pleasant, follow you around trying to get themselves hired. It can be tiresome but we also realize they are trying to make a wage. You decline help from one and then another one appears. Even children will introduce themselves and ask if you would like to help pay for their education.


 

Dubar square

         Dubar Square

 

Magnificent art work can be seen in the structures. Lit candles can be viewed through the lattice windows looking into the Hindu temple. Only Hindus are allowed inside the temple while the Buddhist Temples are open to anyone as long as culture and custom is observed.  Marigolds, flower petals and wax intermingle along with the smoky smell of sandalwood. This incense is much stronger than what we get at home.

From here we went to the Great Buddha Stupa. This Stupa is the most famous in all of Nepal for the all-seeing eyes that decorate the white dome.  It is 123 ft. in diameter and over 43 meters high. Prayer flags flap elegantly in the wind from the top. This Stupa is of great importance to Buddhists from the Himalayans, Tibet, Nepal and India. If possible, at least once in a lifetime the pilgrimage here is taken. This Stupa is located in Boudanath.

Many monks and lamas were circumventing the Stupa, spinning prayer wheels as they said their mantras, “Om Mani Padre Om.”  At night, butter lamps are lit and a beautiful glow surrounds the temple. Those visiting are thought to be given long life and safety from famine and plagues.

 Entrance way     Entranceway 
                                          Entrance way                                              

 Stupas

             Stupas

The car ride from one temple to the other took over an hour and a distance of less than 3 kms.  The traffic is horrendous. The taxis here are like a Mini Cooper with 5 of us, including the driver, squished in. There is no air except the toxic fumes which waft in the window. Teeth, eyes and skin actually feel gritty while rivers of sweat drip down into the carpeted seats. Most of the locals have surgical-like masks covering their mouths and noses to keep out dirt and contaminants. Incense is burned everywhere. Couple this with heat in the mid-30s and you have an idea of what we are up against while travelling.  We are a bit leery of drinking too much water as we try hard not to have to resort to public bathrooms.

This part of Kathmandu has been an adventure but not one we would recommend to anyone to seek. This city is full of poverty, pollution and grime. It is extremely overpopulated and traffic like nothing we have seen. Delhi was calm in comparison. On the back of trucks and buses are signs saying, "use horn.”  This really is a safety measure because with motorbikes creeping in between the traffic bikes and humans, it saves lives.  The person coming from behind lays on the horn until they are past whatever vehicle they were trying to get around.  Tonight we will spend our last night venturing back into the Thamel region of the city. We will try not to get lost in the ever winding maze of streets.

We leave tomorrow for our final flights home.  We will be departing to Delhi and arrive around 3 pm.  The three Canadians leave for Frankfurt, then Toronto at 2:45 am Wednesday morning.   Shauna departs at 8 am.

We are hoping that the clouds break up for the flight. Due to the mountain range, flights are cancelled daily if it becomes too foggy or cloudy. When we flew from here to Pokhara 2 weeks ago, all flights for the day, which were 7, had been cancelled except for ours as the skies cleared up enough to safely travel the distance.

It has been a wonderful learning experience and we each have benefited in our own way.  Travelling does give you an appreciation for family, country and conveniences. We realize that we are not all born equal. Equality is all dependent upon the country you are fortunate to be born into.  People are the same the world over with regards to how they wish to be treated and for the most part, the wishes they have for their children.  So we celebrate our sameness and we celebrate the qualities which allow us to overlook the differences.

Namaste.

 

Letters from Nepal XXIV


Sunday, July 27, 2014


We were treated today to warm water which was a real treat. We are venturing out to go to Dubar Square which is famous for its architecture. We are also hoping to glimpse the Kumari Devi.

The Kumari Devi is one type of living Goddess found in Nepal. In the Hindu religion, there are many Gods and Goddesses as well as avatars. Kumari represents the Goddess Durga. Durga is believed to be the mother of creation and the universe. The Kumari Devi is chosen from the caste of the Newli people who are traditionally silver or goldsmiths.

There are 32 strict physical requirements she must meet such as colour of her eyes, shape of her ears and teeth and lastly birth date and horoscope. She is usually between the ages of 4-12. Once she reaches puberty another Kumari is chosen.

Each Newari family within this caste will try to send their most beautiful daughter in hopes that she will be chosen. The candidates are housed in the Kumari home for one month to undergo testing and rituals in hopes that it will weed those who are not the true Kumari.  She will then be transferred to the Kumari home where she will live a privileged and cloistered life until she starts to menstruate.

Once a group of selected possible candidates are chosen, they are put into a darkened room while a hundred or so people dressed up as other gods and carrying buffalo heads jump and dance at the candidates, trying to scare them. Since Kumari represents Durga, she would not be afraid of this. If she passes this test then the final test is to choose clothing and possessions belonging to the previous Kumari from a pile. If she passes all these tests then she and her family move into the Kumari Banali or home. She only goes out into the city about 6 times a year for special occasions and paraded around on a temple chariot. She is carried outside as her feet must not meet the ground. She will give special blessings and if lucky, will assign the traditional tikka (red dot) to those fortunate enough to meet her.


                                    Kumari Devi 

 

Kumari Devi home

                          Kumari Devi home

 

Once hitting puberty, she and her family are presented with a handsome dowry and must leave the palace. It can be very hard readjusting to normal life from that of one so opulent. It is also thought to be unlucky to marry a former Kumari Devi.

The traffic here is crazy busy and trying to cross a road is very unnerving.  We follow like sheep behind the locals as there never seems to be break. While trying to find our way into the Thamel district, we met a young man who asked if he could walk alongside us and chat as he was trying to improve his English. He is a tongla artist. These artists make mandalas with different stories that depict a philosophy or storyline. They can take up to 4 months to complete and are truly works of art. He also turned out to be a great tour guide, taking us into hidden alleyways and courtyards filled with stupas and temples that we never would have found on our own.

Kathmandu was named from the word kat which means wood and Manchu which means city; it is the city of wood with many homes intricately carved. Much of the wood has become distressed over the years but the workmanship can still be seen.

We were also taken into a courtyard that held an old 400 year old temple that was home to thousands of pigeons.  It was like something out of Alfred Hitchcock. Leanne was christened by the birds which our young artist thought was wonderful luck.

The alleyways held everything from garbage and sewage to fruit stands, spice sellers, bead makers and the ever present motorcycle zipping by. If you are claustrophobic you would have a hard time enjoying this city. We dodged all manner of beast and man and the ringing and blowing of horns is a constant sound to warn us of approaching vehicles and just to warn us to watch our heels.

We took a cab to the monkey temple located outside the city. The driver took down an old rickety wooden bench from his car roof and put in his car for seats. The monkey temple overlooks the city and is a Buddhist temple. Yes, there are monkeys everywhere. At the top, is the Buddhist temple and stupas. Stupas are memorials where cremated remains are buried of different monks.

The temples here are very different than Laos, and the Tibetan prayer flags can be seen blowing in the wind from the trees releasing prayers into the universe. Prayer wheels, which have thousands of prayers written upon tiny papers inserted inside the wheel, are touched and turned clockwise as you circumvent the temple. Each time you touch one you can say "om mani padre om" which loosely is a 6 syllable mantra meaning, "praise to the jewel in the lotus."  It is a mantra that is thought to save one from all dangers. It can be heard sung from the stores and stalls and is quite beautiful and gentle.

An amazing, tiring and assaulting day.

Kathmandu

                          Kathmandu